Do you agree - "When nails are growing we cut our nails not fingers,?
 

Do you agree - "When nails are growing we cut our nails not fingers,?
similarly when ego is raising we should manage the ego but should not stop relationship." Even if you agree to this , why in practice we stop relationships due to ego ?

~ Ego is the biggest enemy of humans relationship. ~
Rig Veda

Ego destroys a marriage, destroys a relationship, because the ego causes conflict all the time—doesn’t want to do anything that is pleasing to others just wants to do the thing that causes trouble.