Love & Marriage

[usman_latif_ch]

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field
and choose the biggest wheat and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to
pick."

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but
he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.

Then he saw another bigger one... But may be there is an even bigger one
waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to
realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he
has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, "...this is love... You keep looking for a better one,
but when later you realize, you have already miss the person...."



"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field
and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go
through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the
previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one
medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, "This time you bring back a corn.... You look for one
that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you
get....
This is marriage."*

[Muzammil]

Na.. faith kahan hota hai?.. agar faith ho ki hume jo mila hai woh best hai.. to phir shaadi kabhi na toote.. yahan bhi wohi baat hai.. jab hum woh choose ker lete hain phir baad me realize kerte hain ki yaar thora aur wait kerte to isse behter mil sakta tha.. baat insaan ki fitrat ki hai.. bus.. woh kabhi kisi cheez me satisfied nahi hota..

[usman_latif_ch]

Originally Posted by emsplanet

Na.. faith kahan hota hai?.. agar faith ho ki hume jo mila hai woh best hai.. to phir shaadi kabhi na toote.. yahan bhi wohi baat hai.. jab hum woh choose ker lete hain phir baad me realize kerte hain ki yaar thora aur wait kerte to isse behter mil sakta tha.. baat insaan ki fitrat ki hai.. bus.. woh kabhi kisi cheez me satisfied nahi hota..

yes you are right
aesa he hota ha kyoun k insan ki fitrat mein ha k wo kuch arsa tk he ek cheez mein intrested rehta ha or phir change demand kerta ha...laqin hr jaga aesa nahi hona chaheya jab hm ny choose kiya kisi ko apny liye tu phir wssi per satisfy rehna chaheya...kyoun k agar hm new change k demand karain gy tu wo new bhi ek din old lagi gi or phir insan or mazeed new ki demand kery ga..and so on so on....and thats not fair

[Muzammil]

Usman Sahab main baat yeh hai na ki bande ke paas jo cheez nahi hoti use wohi chahiye.. aur jo aapko mil jaati hai aapk usme se intrest khatm ho jata hai.. chahe woh kuch bhi ho.. for e.g aap ki gf ne aapko raat me 12 baje phone kia ya aap koi kaam ker rahe hain tab phone kia to aap kiya karenge..? aap ki neend khatm ho jayegi aur agar aap kaam ker rahe hain to kaam kern chor denge.. per wohi baat agar aap ki wife ke saath hua to..? 99% aapka mood kharab hoga.. kyon ki usko aap haaseel ker chuke hain.. its so simple yaar jo cheez aap se door hoti hai.. usme aap ko kashish dikhti hai.. jo aap ko mil jaati hai.. usse aap bore hone lagte hain.. sirf love aur merriage hi nahi.. wo kuch bhi ho sakta hai.. mujhe hi dekho.. meine aaj se 2 saal pehle jab net use kerna start kia tha to bari tamanna thi ki meri itni badi site ho ki sab ko uska name pata ho.. ab aaj mera ek forum hai jisper any time min around 300 visitors hote hain.. 2nd of jan ko ek time per usper 1,595 visitors the. to ab me usse bore hone lag hoon.. kyon..? kyon ki mujhe woh cheez haseel ho gayi hai.. jo me chahta tha.. mujhe SEO expert banna hai.. aur mujhe sab kuch sikhna hi is bare me chhe woh black hat ho ya white hat SEO kal raat me meine cloaker kia hot hai yeh sikha.. aur inshallah ek din meSEO expert ho bhi jaoonga but phir kia hoga.. me use bhi bore ho jaoonga.. yehi insaan ki fitrat hai..

[usman_latif_ch]

hmmm...
aesa tu hota ha per yeh tu positive development ha na k insan jab kuch hasal ker ly yan ban jye tu mazeed k taraf barhay
per love or mararge etc. mein aesa nahi hona chaheya na
kyoun k wo tu lust ha insan ki jo kabhi khatm nahi ho sakti